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samyboys
12-05-2009, 09:33 AM
why so? the frequency we doing it is like once a fortnight?

guess time to spend $ to buy sex:mad:

BiAndPretty
12-05-2009, 11:56 PM
WTF?

You're too lazy to ask or talk about the problem and resorting to the quick way out of paying for sex?

If you don't even bother to talk, maybe it's time to find yourself a new partner (if you're not married to this partner). Maybe the problem isn't in the partner?

Ken2009
13-05-2009, 09:33 PM
maybe ur partner having some problem? maybe u can trace back when this trend started...

cunt_search
13-05-2009, 10:45 PM
why so? the frequency we doing it is like once a fortnight?

guess time to spend $ to buy sex:mad:

buy lo:D
u equate partner to sex partner:confused:

men's need r diff fr women
women can live w/o sex but men was built to be sex craving
else there wont be procreation and it make the process more challenging if not interesting

wish_mistress
17-05-2009, 01:24 PM
If my partner is not keen in sex and when I am horny, I will try to stimulate him by wearing sexily:D

DO_YOU_BJ
17-05-2009, 01:43 PM
If my partner is not keen in sex and when I am horny, I will try to stimulate him by wearing sexily:D

Eh allo, I assume you're a female.
TS is a male, so how you want him to dress sexily?????
Wear a G String wif his prick exposed and dangle all over the shop?
Jesus..........

Panamera
17-05-2009, 02:04 PM
why so? the frequency we doing it is like once a fortnight?

guess time to spend $ to buy sex:mad:

Why so???? There's always 2 sides to a coin, best is to communicate with your partner and work out the problem, hope you're not finding excuses to comfort your guilt to "eat outside"...:rolleyes:

Think your 2nd Soon-To-Be thread would be more interesting when your paid sex turned into a torrid love affair and turned your life upside down.:(

Panamera
17-05-2009, 02:27 PM
If my partner is not keen in sex and when I am horny, I will try to stimulate him by wearing sexily

OMG!!!! hope you're not asking TS to wear these:

http://i729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Panamera_bucket/trouser_snake.jpghttp://i729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Panamera_bucket/sh585seethru250.jpghttp://i729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Panamera_bucket/toucan_bikini.jpghttp://i729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Panamera_bucket/sh412elephant200.jpg

starcrosser
18-05-2009, 10:45 PM
I would just buy a hj instead of a full job unless really needed.

HCKing
19-05-2009, 07:37 PM
so who's stopping u??

mike1304k
30-05-2009, 08:51 AM
Actually, I would not mind a once in a fortnight sex schedule if the babe is beautiful and can give me a mind blowing session. Then I will have another 2 weeks to gather the energy and fall in the sperms for yet another mind blowing session.

TS, you no head no tail...

But seriously, women are wired differently from men. They do not equate sex to love. Try to communicate and see what she wants. But if you want to just take her as a sex toy, then please jus go out and buy sex. It is easier and safer for all. But please do not bring any diseases back to your woman.

sumo_wrestler
02-06-2009, 02:43 AM
me too, poor me :(

Microurl
05-06-2009, 09:20 PM
Is your gf having problems with you? By the way where are you?

m0uz3
06-06-2009, 05:29 PM
Eh allo, I assume you're a female.
TS is a male, so how you want him to dress sexily?????
Wear a G String wif his prick exposed and dangle all over the shop?
Jesus..........

LOL! Outrageous indeed!

jackx
07-06-2009, 05:28 PM
Maybe due to stress so not keen on sex

rogerlim
08-06-2009, 02:19 AM
Sometimes after years of marriage or a relationship, alot of us goes into sexual boredom, i am currently going through that now and the advise given by some critics and authors is to have sex with other women.

Max77
23-07-2009, 03:09 PM
why so? the frequency we doing it is like once a fortnight?...

Always look inside urself for answer first-easy said then done myself i admitted. But remember benefits tat r fr long term relationship taste sweeter then short term one. (unless u r a seasonal player)

okinzuka
23-07-2009, 11:34 PM
Woman can go without sex for a long long time but not man...:rolleyes:
Guess this is how god built man and woman... Ever wonder not giving u sex = not loving u... think about it...:rolleyes:
U r into the relationship just for sex or love... haha only u will noe

lamtaetae
24-07-2009, 02:56 AM
Maybe due to stress so not keen on sex


Sex is a great reliever of stress...sex in the sense of making love, instead of "wham bam, thank ma'am".

Guess the TS has lost intimacy with the missus ?

reaperx
21-09-2009, 01:30 AM
i'm in the same shoe,sometimes feel like buying some horny shit drug to drug her. If not her excuse is always,tired la can do other day? but other day is when? Xmas? so in the end i go FL. No offence i still love my gf, but a man needs what a man needs..

zhaolinger
26-09-2009, 11:20 PM
same here... I love my OC but sex has never been frequent. understand how bros in the same situation feel...

RUNROAD
27-09-2009, 02:46 PM
Woman can go without sex for a long long time but not man...:rolleyes:
Guess this is how god built man and woman... Ever wonder not giving u sex = not loving u... think about it...:rolleyes:
U r into the relationship just for sex or love... haha only u will noe

how interestingly true. man and woman r just polar opposites of one another.

MM&MM
27-09-2009, 10:55 PM
No wonder we don't understand women.:(:)

sentsggirls
28-09-2009, 01:11 AM
either she is tenses or her mind is not comfortable.

cah8977
28-09-2009, 01:19 AM
...the last time I had it with OC is about 6 weeks ago....and I've try talking to her. It works for aware but goodthings never last long. Things are back to where it begin after a few months. Reason for her to say no: TIRED after a long day at work. :(

Elysia
28-09-2009, 10:40 AM
we know that men and women cannot look at sex in the same way.

Foreplay is important.Planning for a sensuous night can couple sexual desires on high.Dress provocatively will arouse your partner for a sexual session.Exchange naughty gestures as these act hese sexual gestures act as clear indications that a woman is much more aroused as compared to the man.

sammyboyfor
28-09-2009, 12:41 PM
why so? the frequency we doing it is like once a fortnight?


Could it be your halitosis?:p:p

JanJan1979
12-10-2009, 01:26 PM
Maybe u didn't stimulate & turn her on enough? Or didn't manage to satisfy her the previous times? :p

Find out what ur ger likes n enjoys :)

zunbo
22-10-2009, 01:13 AM
excite in bedroom :)

thaivisitor
22-10-2009, 07:53 AM
why so? the frequency we doing it is like once a fortnight?

guess time to spend $ to buy sex:mad:

Maybe you're not a good lover?
Maybe your partner is having it better with someone else?
Maybe, maybe, maybe....

Many reasons which you need to sort out yourself.

Cheers
Tee Vee

HaveFun69
23-10-2009, 12:27 AM
Most pblm lies with women lah... they feel men can love them with out making out so oftn.. they will say, if u love me, then when i dun wan, then dun wan lah... no reason one

SinDellman
23-10-2009, 09:26 AM
From my observation, for most women above 40, she is most keen in:

1. Children welfare
2. Money $$$ (or Company/Business that she is helping out)
3. Her own parents and siblings (to achieve that RESPECT and admiration)
4. Husband's health and welfare (more on his income-earning ability)
5. SEX

As for most men,:

1. Company/Business/Work
2. Hobbies/Interests (to some bro, seeking SEX is a hobby :p)
3. Wife/Partner - SEX and cooking
4. Children (to some bro, Brotherhood)
5. Parents and siblings (to achieve that RESPECT and admiration)

I am be wrong, but this is my own observation.
Please don't zap me for this :rolleyes:

closetspacefull
23-10-2009, 09:38 AM
Two choices

a) your right hand
b) a mistress

pick one and stop whining. :)

samyboys
15-12-2009, 03:24 PM
If my partner is not keen in sex and when I am horny, I will try to stimulate him by wearing sexily:D

least u know how to get his attention

samyboys
15-12-2009, 03:30 PM
to be honest, i don't like to pcc as it have no feeling.

but partner is always 'lights off' early. u go arouse her earlier before bed, she say u come with sex intention.

and usually sex is like a SOP, everything quite standard, seldom got new pattern and style:o

Cheonging101
16-12-2009, 04:22 PM
to be honest, i don't like to pcc as it have no feeling.
Who likes to PCC if got pussy? :rolleyes:

but partner is always 'lights off' early. u go arouse her earlier before bed, she say u come with sex intention.
You reply her, "arboh want you to cook maggi mee for supper meh?":D

and usually sex is like a SOP, everything quite standard, seldom got new pattern and style:o
This one is your fault lor, bro.

Pattern is you choot one mah!:p

wangchung001
16-12-2009, 07:17 PM
Losing intimacy sometimes can be just a puzzle to a bigger picture.
It might range anything from feeling underappreciated to lack of excitement to even an affair outside the relationship.

Talk to your other if need be to understand the problem. Remember women are not like men, we tend to say and act how we feel and women are the polar opposite sometimes bottling up everything till boiling point.

At worst case if you dont want to and you need sexual gratification try PCC, at least you dont have the feeling of cheating on her and you get the same release. If not then vary your options and go for a quickie somewhere. But be warned sometimes the slope is a very slippery one and may be detrimental to you. Some get addicted to the feeling of cheating on their partner and the thrill of getting away scot free.

In the end its your choice. Best way to do it in my opinion.

Go jack off somewhere so the blood can rush to your real "head" so you can think clearly.

RUNROAD
16-12-2009, 07:26 PM
to be honest, i don't like to pcc as it have no feeling.

but partner is always 'lights off' early. u go arouse her earlier before bed, she say u come with sex intention.

and usually sex is like a SOP, everything quite standard, seldom got new pattern and style:o

if u dont highlight to her about yr expectations how would she know? u mean she is your partner but both of you are still not intimate enough to talk about sex life? :confused:

Oralcraz
17-12-2009, 03:22 PM
to be honest, i don't like to pcc as it have no feeling.
but partner is always 'lights off' early. u go arouse her earlier before bed, she say u come with sex intention.
and usually sex is like a SOP, everything quite standard, seldom got new pattern and style:o

Btw, yr partner is yr wife or gf ???

Cheonging101
17-12-2009, 03:43 PM
Btw, yr partner is yr wife or gf ???

Or mother??? :eek:

Okay, joking only... unless you are bro lyontemplar. :p

pussyidol
17-12-2009, 05:05 PM
Btw, yr partner is yr wife or gf ???

Good question, but maybe neither, just a sex partner, it that a better option ?:D

pussyidol
17-12-2009, 05:08 PM
From my observation, for most women above 40, she is most keen in:


Bro, I remember the Chinese saying woman in 40 like Tiger? dont mix with Tiger Woodz lao as he is not she :D:D

wittyguy
18-12-2009, 09:26 AM
Time to change the partner, or get 2nd ones :D:D

In business world, u can not stick to one partner, otherwise will be controlled by it, same applys to others :p

Oralcraz
18-12-2009, 11:46 AM
Good question, but maybe neither, just a sex partner, it that a better option ?:D

Or mother??? :eek:
Okay, joking only... unless you are bro lyontemplar. :p

Guess we are unable to understand TS or advise him. Still no reply fm him ???

Oralcraz
18-12-2009, 11:49 AM
Thks wittyguy for the points. Upz u when power is back.

President
19-12-2009, 12:42 AM
Guess we are unable to understand TS or advise him. Still no reply fm him ???

Maybe TS already forget the thread lao, and he is busy with another partner now :D:D

saintdevil
20-12-2009, 09:41 AM
actually i almost never have a problem with girls not active in sex b4, usually they are very keen for it. Or at most not rejecting me when i want it.

Talk to her about it, is the best method.
it is said that, man don't cheat because the right woman has yet to appear.
woman don't cheat because the right man has yet to appear.

So its obvious there are ways to turn her on really good , to ensure sex is always on the menu daily. work on it and good luck.

Super White
29-12-2009, 11:47 AM
Why get married if there's no sexual chemistry? :rolleyes:

Frankiestine
29-12-2009, 01:23 PM
Why get married if there's no sexual chemistry? :rolleyes:

eh are you married??

Super White
29-12-2009, 05:05 PM
eh are you married??

No, just a GF for over 10 years. Does that count?

Super White
29-12-2009, 05:28 PM
eh are you married??

...but I know what you mean, it's a subject of endless negotiations and a process of give and take.

Maintaining the spark is difficult, but I'll be damned if I don't start off with it. I still stand by the importance of initial sexual chemistry.

Over 10 years, I realize I'm lucky that mine is 'so far so good', but I must admit that keeping the feeling alive is hard work. Like an exotic plant. Without constant care and attention, it withers. I had to regrow it more than once. :o

Frankiestine
30-12-2009, 09:48 AM
Well perhaps if you search through the forum, this topic about LSD partners has been discussed time and over again...and the general consensus is, the before and after marriage sex is two totally different extreme. Before marriage it could be 3x a weeks but after marriage the hit rate could even stretch to once in two or even three months. So sexual chemistry prior to marriage is actually a difficult guide to use.

iamme0099
11-01-2010, 03:52 PM
i kind of have the same problem as well. my gf and i have only been doing it like once weekly or fortnightly. typical excuse/reason given = tired after a day of work. come weekends would be staying out together till late and once home, knocked out again.

but at times she would tell me over dinner we're not having enough sex recently and want to make love that night. as usual, once home, she knocked out again.

sometimes when i try to stimulate her, she would tell me another day because it's late and still need to work tomorrow. and the reason why we go to bed that late is because she is watching tv or surfing the net. DUHZ.....

quote one eg, last night she teased me by giving me a super short AR and BBBJ like 1min before she stopped and used her computer. then we were watching porn and i thought yea she's horny, should be able to up my girl liao. who knows she kept pushing me away when i tried to touch her. only allowed me to use a vibrator to tease her. then off com already i tried to stimulate her again when lying on the bed getting ready to sleep at ard 2.30am, she just tell me too late liao need to wake up early next morning. in the end, she could not slp and played games on hp until 5am. HAIZ.

really need advice from bros here man.

sammyboyfor
11-01-2010, 04:12 PM
really need advice from bros here man.

The solution is very simple. If your current partner is not giving you enough sex, get rid of her and find one that does.

Is that so difficult????:rolleyes:

Ichigo_Kurosaki
11-01-2010, 04:55 PM
.....and the reason why we go to bed that late is because she is watching tv or surfing the net. DUHZ.....

quote one eg, last night she teased me by giving me a super short AR and BBBJ like 1min before she stopped and used her computer. then we were watching porn and i thought yea she's horny, should be able to up my girl liao. who knows she kept pushing me away when i tried to touch her. only allowed me to use a vibrator to tease her. then off com already i tried to stimulate her again when lying on the bed getting ready to sleep at ard 2.30am, she just tell me too late liao need to wake up early next morning. in the end, she could not slp and played games on hp until 5am. HAIZ....really need advice from bros here man.

Disable the computer and TV when she's around...:) :D

Anyway, what's your plan with her tonight or she'be working late or meeting up with colleague/friend tonight and not meeting you?

Chinapuss
11-01-2010, 07:23 PM
If ur partner is not keen in having sex with u, could onli mean she have another source of supply from outside :D

venussg
11-01-2010, 11:25 PM
If ur partner is not keen in having sex with u, could onli mean she have another source of supply from outside :D

80% lao, another 20% could be the lady had some bad experiences with sex b4 and don't like sex anymore :p

Best solution is to change the partner :D

S.B.Y
12-01-2010, 12:24 AM
Mas Ts

You might want to spruce up your love life with your partner.

It might turn into another dimension .

Good Luck

samyboys
12-01-2010, 04:55 PM
Sex is a great reliever of stress...sex in the sense of making love, instead of "wham bam, thank ma'am".

Guess the TS has lost intimacy with the missus ?

yes it has happened

samyboys
12-01-2010, 05:03 PM
Mas Ts

You might want to spruce up your love life with your partner.

It might turn into another dimension .

Good Luck


no point when always is me coming out with something new or interesting.
just few nights ago, i teased her, she said tired.

in fact a few times i initiate, now seriously i don't since 3 times, 2 times reject.

spoken to her whats an ideal frequency, she said about 2-3 times weekly, but that never happen.

its kind of frustrating to think when she's in the mood for sex, and later face rejection.

last but not least, i feel that due to that we do not do it often, after each session, though even was a shiok for both parties, she will say her private will sore for a few days and out of action. definitely not about lubrication was i always make sure she's wet before penetration

sexster79
12-01-2010, 05:54 PM
I tot i was the only one facing such a situation...

Not having sex for almost 7 weeks...driving me crazy...lol

Whenever i mentioned to her, she said tired...if not no mood...then she will say being together not necessary must have sex...

In my mind i was tinking it not abt sex...it more abt love making and having intimate moment lor...and also abt the passion...

Dunno how to convince her...if tok to her more, she will always find way to argue her way to victory...haha

Keep finger cross...and will ask again later tis week...wish mi luck bros...

samkuku
12-01-2010, 07:12 PM
me too, asked also rejected until i give up liao.
now talk no more, just wait until the day she happy lor but i dun think it will come, never can return to the days where we really enjoy sex in all ways, my wife is the wild type when i first met her now she became a traditional kind.

SirWilliam
13-01-2010, 02:23 AM
Bros,
I read this tread with special interest, as I have/had the same problem. Would like to share with you how I deal with it.
TS complaint should be a common one, simply on the fact that once ppl are together for a long time, things changed. It probably also made worse by the all the happenings in daily life.. such as kids, money, work, etc.
However, if you recall the early days, things were usually different - more romance, more hot sex, more sugar, more many things...
So the big question is how come like that now?
I must say that the answers from all the boys and gals make some sense one way or the other. However, I would like to take a more serious and critical approach..

1) Change yourself:
When the going gets tough, its always easier to turn and find another way out. But bros, this is your wife that we talking about, its worth a try, always. First of all, take it that whatever you are doing now (going for FL or flings) as temporary solutions. Never give up or forget the problem you have with your wife and continue working on it.. in your mind at least. You will succeed. The reason is simple. You succeeded once!

2) Action:
Most of us, think a lot, talk a lot, but when it comes to action, we screwed up. Often, you also like to silently blame her for it. I suggest actions and gear it up as you execute. So what action should you take?
Well, since the topic is on "not-enough-sex" i will keep my comments in the same area.
I did this once and it works. I was getting bored and have not had it for 2 weeks.. thought of trying to arouose her.. but how? At the point, the thought of getting a FL came to my mind.. then... suddenly, I just thought.. why dont I bring her to hotel intead?
So I sms her a kinky message asking her if she wish to go to hotel81. Dont know I was lucky or wat, it works..
So went there, did it and felt that she perform differently.. After the session I ask her why like that and she explained that its because its like back to the old days.. thrilled... exciting.. like as if she is doing something secretive.. all sort of reasons.. damn i did not know she like such stuffs..
So, the next thing i did a few days later was.. bought flowers for her.. like old days.. and that night I got jack pot again.. her performance changed.. again..

From my short expereince above.. i feel that the reason may lies with the lost of excitement.. thrills and too involved in our daily mundane stuffs that caused the dullness.. It seems a littel spices can turn out well..

Well, up to now, I am only just beginning toexperiment with whatever new strategy I am taking.. dont have too much to share yet.. perhaps in future ba.

Till then, wish you all well !

samyboys
13-01-2010, 09:27 AM
I tot i was the only one facing such a situation...

Not having sex for almost 7 weeks...driving me crazy...lol

Whenever i mentioned to her, she said tired...if not no mood...then she will say being together not necessary must have sex...

In my mind i was tinking it not abt sex...it more abt love making and having intimate moment lor...and also abt the passion...

Dunno how to convince her...if tok to her more, she will always find way to argue her way to victory...haha

Keep finger cross...and will ask again later tis week...wish mi luck bros...



Whenever i mentioned to her, she said tired...if not no mood...then she will say being together not necessary must have sex...

In my mind i was tinking it not abt sex...it more abt love making and having intimate moment lor...and also abt the passion...

Dunno how to convince her...if tok to her more, she will always find way to argue her way to victory


your situation is just so similar to mine. maybe guys need sex to have passion, woman otherwise.
its a turn off to argue in bed

closetspacefull
13-01-2010, 09:37 AM
If the wife is not interested, she's not...

Try some romance, like a getaway to a spa or holiday resort. Maybe just surprise her with champagne, strawberry and roses. In fact, don't ask for sex the first time so it doesn't seem like a bribe. Try it on the 2nd or 3rd romantic gesture.

If all else fails, there's always Geylang or FL section. If the wife doesn't provide, no need to have hurt feelings. Its just sex and thats always available.

argas
13-01-2010, 09:45 AM
If all else fails, there's always Geylang or FL section. If the wife doesn't provide, no need to have hurt feelings. Its just sex and thats always available.

Well said bro, sex is not everything, and sex is the easy part of the relationship :D

heye
13-01-2010, 11:34 AM
Brudder i can understand ur situation as i am facing it too.
Realli envy some brudder here who have so many FB and they enjoy sex.

For me i have had been depreive of sex too and i dont realli luk the idea of FB or FL as i am realli serious into tis relationship.

Hope ur situation turn better soon.

Somtimes all tis rejection will hurt our ego and makes us feel so wimp.
Luk beggin for sex , i once reject sex wif my GF for 1 week and avoid all intimacy and she took a initiative but neglection is not a solution as i am afraid tis might becomes a habit which might jepordise our relationship:(

samkuku
13-01-2010, 12:47 PM
when you got rejected too often, u will not even want to ask anymore, bcos it hurts when we r rejected. maybe i should try sirwilliam method, im some way i think he is right, just imagine how long we hv not been left alone after the marriage and when the kids is born and bcos of those bad days i also stopped to buy her gift no matter what occasion. i think i need to give some surprises but i did ask her to hotel 81 for some great moment between us but was rejected too say why pay for a hotel when u got room of your own. haiz .... i really wish i could turn thing around and back to the old days.

Ichigo_Kurosaki
13-01-2010, 03:12 PM
Just dropping by your thread to leave a short support note..

Both SB and SKK bros, with so many good bros contributing in this thread, I am sure that it is uplifting to know that you are not alone. Every couple has sexual difficulties of some kind or another appear during a marriage. You might think that the situation doesn't seem to be a problem for her, and every rejections feel like hurting your feelings, making you just want to give up and trying to find ways to outsource to meet your needs. Don’t give up, though it might be unbearable at times - Ask Her What She Wants

Good luck :)

cockerdooo
20-01-2010, 02:55 PM
we always got other option than waiting for her, so your little luck else where if you dun feel for her anymore.

samkuku
21-01-2010, 12:35 PM
now we r in cold war, so just wait until she make the move or just let everything fade away. Haiz...

bestlicker
22-01-2010, 10:39 AM
communication is the key in any r/s, talk to her :D:D

Action speaks louder, if need, take the initiative and make move 1st, dont wait :cool:

28ahken
24-01-2010, 04:47 AM
well i think creating the right mood at the right time and try to make her happy by maybe asking your partner out on a date have a good talk create the right mood at a suitable place might change some things!

goodpartner
24-01-2010, 11:31 AM
Maybe learn the orgasm arts or something that'll send your gal to 9 heaven in your next attempt. After that, she may choose** you instead...

** If u said she teased u but didn't finish the course, it sounds like she didn't get the reaction she wanted... and that maybe she has had better...? :rolleyes:

Urbane
24-01-2010, 11:40 AM
I once had a gf like that. Then she caught me two timing and I just said to her - what do you expect me to do when you always push me away ?

Things, or sex rather improved tremendously after and I think she also started to enjoy it. She was much wetter than before.

However, I think my straying episode left too tangible a shadow and we eventually split :(

Not recommended to try what I did, just to share.

cum_in
25-01-2010, 03:26 PM
I think the best is, instead of blaming the wife/gf not wanting to do it. U can always set up the mood. Sms her some kinky message to spice her up before she come home. Or take a day off with her to go relax. Book a chalet whereby only you and her in the room... *ahem* Or try again when she having menses or 1-2 days after having menses, usually girls are more horny at that period :p

Have more respect for women because they are not objects they are people. I think finding FL or FB will not solve the issue. What if end up she find out you do thing and leave you? Then you end up addicted to FL or FB then more cham. Dont give up ar bro!

stiffiner
25-01-2010, 05:23 PM
what if she refused or she do it just for the sake of doing?
i'm having some problem with my wife too.
but we are in the condition with no talk, no kiss, no hug and no touch right now.

bigxos
26-01-2010, 05:37 PM
search around bro's maybe u can find someone new or better then she will be kang chiong abt u liao

2003_newbie
08-02-2010, 01:45 PM
I love my OC v much, and have a young baby. But we only make love once in 2 months. The last time is about 1 year ago while she's pregnant.

I fully understand TS feelings.

TyLa_BaBy
08-02-2010, 03:23 PM
what if she refused or she do it just for the sake of doing?
i'm having some problem with my wife too.
but we are in the condition with no talk, no kiss, no hug and no touch right now.


Sorry to provide unsolicited advice, but no physical contact is seriously not conducive for sex lor.
I dunno about your wife, but if there's no holding hands, hug, kiss, no mood to have sex even if horny cos don't feel "loved".



I love my OC v much, and have a young baby. But we only make love once in 2 months. The last time is about 1 year ago while she's pregnant.

I fully understand TS feelings.


So sorry to hear that. 1 year is a long time! But babies aren't exactly easy to handle even if they're "easy babies". All have high demands. I have 2, and I'm a stay-home mom, so I'd know. Really saps your energy and mood out lor.
By the time spend a bit of time with husband, cultivate mood, already 1-2am liao. Next day he have to work, how to have sex lah.

Just a suggestion: Help her out with the baby or pass to in-laws lah. Then bring her go paktor and relax. When a woman feels loved, she will want to have sex with you!

samyboys
09-02-2010, 12:05 AM
bedroom intimacy is dead tonight since the past few nights as well and therefore i am here at around midnight.:o

well guess when a woman is turned off, it needs no explanation:mad:

TyLa_BaBy
09-02-2010, 01:44 AM
well guess when a woman is turned off, it needs no explanation:mad:

Wei wei wei, when a man turned off also no explanation hor.
Don't worry, I also no action tonight. Almost 2am liao still here. :D

Rain-Men
09-02-2010, 01:52 AM
Wei wei wei, when a man turned off also no explanation hor.
Don't worry, I also no action tonight. Almost 2am liao still here. :D

Haa...u waiting for some action sis?? :D

samyboys
12-02-2010, 02:06 PM
Wei wei wei, when a man turned off also no explanation hor.
Don't worry, I also no action tonight. Almost 2am liao still here. :D

seldom got guys turned off, likely he's not in the mood:D
or u are expecting it too frequently